WHY ARE WE UNHAPPY!?

 Are you still asking that question? Roughly it looks like this:

1️⃣ You get married, then a 35-year housing loan, a car loan, and then another.

2️⃣ You give birth to children, you raise them in typical Poland, in the stiffest way, in the form of the archetype of a strict aunt Grażyna with short-cut hair.

3️⃣ You work not where you like. Like 80% or more of people, you do work that would be considered necessary evil as coercion. You don't like her, and after 20 years you even hate her. But you prioritize it, you are doubly diligent. You take overtime to earn more. You get up early, come home late.

4️⃣ You don't have much free time for yourself. You would rather be in Zakopane, for example, but it is Wednesday and until Friday you are a slave to a job or your own business. And after the children are born, you don't have any time for yourself, because you already work 3 jobs, 8 hours each.

You had dreams, hobbies, passions, and ideals. And what is left of them is a lack of fulfillment, frustration, and a burdensome treadmill of everyday and everyday life.

5️⃣ After some years of such tyranny, treadmill, death of dreams and ideals, the man reaches a certain stage not only of degeneration and decay of the essence of humanity but even a certain degree of debilitation or idiocy. The alarm clock, annoying traffic jam (each in his car, 3 cars for the family), because to go three times faster by tram these 4 stops is colostrum in front of colleagues, irritating work which he hates. Rushing millennials, who prefer to live a little apart from work, then again cork, pork chops with potatoes, a family quarrel, talking about children and junk (ladies), or about football, cars, and women (gentlemen). Goofy soap opera (ladies), or a league match at the level of the Republic of Kurganistan and 8 beers (gentlemen). Then shower and sleep (no s*x for years, in separate beds).

A happy person (serotonin, GABA) has a lower need for dopamine spikes. It was dopamine, testosterone and the constant emotional deficiencies they build that gave rise to civilization. And a happy person goes to the green grass and meditates, then leaves this world childless. A genuinely fulfilled man is not very productive for the system. It is the lack of fulfillment, the frustration, and the ardent desire for a dopamine boost that are the driving force of civilization.

It is so simple and yet difficult to understand. Because in the words of the Architect from the movie Truman Show - “We take what we find in the world at face value. It's so simple."

Meanwhile, it is not a coin, and it is not good, but it is a Joker card with the mean smiling face of a financier, banker, or politician.

When you discover it, you also notice that there is not much of anyone to share it with. It is too logical and obvious for most people to figure out. So their misfortune is building the system. Also roads, bridges, factories, businesses that you also use. Therefore, when you talk about it, you encounter hostility and mockery. Because on the one hand, they are overburdening and you are not. They work, work, work, and you work, but also live, live. And it hurts.